Respect to anyone who can walk in heels this big!! 

Another Andy photo...

Think this was for fancy dress at his work.. And yes, of course he won!! 

When the sleigh bells stop?!

*WHOOSH* Im sorry, did someone see Christmas just fly by?!!? Doesnt feel like a minute ago I were last minute shopping (in july) for it!! Anyway, to cut a long story short, I had possibly the best Christmas ever.... All for one reason and that is that I spent it with Richard. He totally spoiled me and as well as lots of other bits, I got an Ipod Nano, a Idog (ded cool) a t shirt (v nice) loadsa CD's, a wallet, umbrella, smelly set, aftershave, mouse that lights and changes colour for my pc and loads of other bits!! gotta say though what made the day was spending it with him.. Aww.. how soppy am I?!

Sooo... Now we are just waiting for the new year party to be over and then its back to the grind stone aint it.... Quite looking forward to my summer hols now!! Already planning them and are looking at dubai (again) or somewhere in the middle east where you get from town to town by flinstone type vehicles!!

Gays are now allowed to marry to I hear!! Apparantly Stoke On Trent already had 36 marriages planned.. Im willing to bet that 30 of the fuckers have been together less than 6 months.. Gays and their parties!? I dont think people appreciate sometimes how normal I actually am compared to a lot of gays.. Some at work appear to have taken an instant dislike to me...Possibly because of my sexuality and threatening masculinity etc etc... Not that I care, but I am actually quite a nice person and I dont skip around in a crop top and a flower in my hair..Believe me, some do! So what if Im a little bit camp at times... Im a nice guy.... Unfair!? I think so! Ranting now so will immediatly shut my cake hole!! :)

We have also decided that we are going to have a UK mini break not one abroad which I have got to say, i am absolutely ecstatic about!! Am going to have a look over the next few weeks to see if I can maybe get something booked up!! :D
In other news, my tooth is fucked so got to have it sorted tomorrow.. in the mean time i seem to be slowly shredding my tongue to shreds!! :'(

Happy new year everyone :)
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My first time out with Andy

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how gay am I?!

bloody ell... And people think Im camp now!! If only they could have seen me back then.. this photo and below shows me aged 15-16 shortly after the discoverment of gayness!! LOL 

 
 

MY MATE ANDY AS HIS CHRISTMAS CHARACTER (HE LOOKS ABSOLUTELY AMAZIN AND DOES ALL HIS OWN COSTUMES/MAKEUP ETC) AND ME ATTEMPTING TO BE CHRISTMASSY FOR THE CAMERA!

1 sleep...........!!!!!!

Ay up!
Im at work this morning.. How poo is that?! I would REALLY be loving it if I could go home at the mo! Went out last night (one of the all time shittest nights out ever.. ) But my mate Andy got dressed up (will include a photo) and it was really good to see him glammed up! :)

I really conna be arsed to write this.. Im knackered.. Think Ill put me head down for a bit!
Merry Christmas everyone! :)
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7 sleeps....

Only seven nights until jolly old saint fuckwit (sorry, I mean Nick) Blows his load down all of our chimneys again.. (Personally, I am pretty grateful that I have no chimney...) I have spent every occasion that I have seen my neice Jaya since 1st December whispering to her that there is no santa... Cos there isnt you know.. WOH NO!!.. Broke my fuckin heart when I found out.. I was only 20 too.. I dont see the harm it would have done to leave me believing in santa clause for a few more years to be honest but my mother thought it was "time that I knew.." Yeah.. WHATEVER!! So now Im on the rampage to all small children under 2 years old and letting them all know that there is no such thing as the fat twat they call "Santa!" Tut!!

Anyway, My last pressie came today for richard... Think I may have said that about 20 times now but its definitely here and Im definitely sorted... Dont think hes gonna be all that impressed with all of the presents that Ive bought him but I put as much thought into it after the marathon of spending I did for his birthday and he knows this!!

My laptop is away for repair at the moment so Im working off my sisters PC but have got to reformat the thing etc etc before wednesday as Im flogging it which will leave me without a PC. Not sure whether to just buy another one.. Quite like the look of the Sony Vaio but seeing as my laptop is £1200.00 in shops and I got it for £560.00, it kinda makes me think that I should maybe try to get used to it.. It is very pretty as well I spose.. Want some wire tidiers too cos am sick of the mess me wires make!!

Anyway.. Ill update soon
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The Entertainer?!!?

Richard made a suggestion to me on Sunday.. He mentioned that his friends have never seen my flat and that its looking rather nice and Christmassy at the moment and that we could invite them around for a takeaway or a drink or something... It was only when he said that how much I realised that I would love them to come and see the place. It seems silly that week in week out I visit them and yet they have not got a clue what my abode even looks like.. (yeah its not a palace but its OK!) So I have sent Donna a text saying that before Christmas they must come and visit.. Last night I was even talking about dragging Richards poor mother over for tea as well!! All of a sudden Im turning into Hyacinth.. Before u know it Ill be hosting candlelight suppers for celebrities!! Or not... but i do seriously think that if I started inviting a few more people around (now I have my shiny new carpets) that i could become quite domesticated....Could it be that Im lookin to settle...

We have the yearly ANC christmas dooo on Thursday night and have only been informed today that no jeans are allowed.. Bit late notice for everyone.. There is uproar here! We are all going to rebel and wear our jeans anyway!! That will teach them a lesson.. And Im sure we will be laughing when they kick us out for been too casually dressed.. But "party wear" nowadays is not shirt trousers and black shoes is it?! Bloody disgraceful! End of moan.. For now..

Christmas is fast approaching (only 12 days now!) and I have one more present to buy which is totally baffling me as Ive not got a clue what kind to buy! Will have to get it soon though otherwise it may not arrive in time for St Nick!!

Anywayyyyyyy, I had better go and do some work as its coming to the end of my dinner 10 minutes now!! :-P

Will be having a nice afternoon on Thursday with Richard and then a nice Friday in Trentham gardens with Richard and his mum before going to The legs of Man for our dinner.


Still got yer card on me desk Jasey.. Really will send it before Christmas day... :) Oooh.. And while we on the subject.. Richards card e' got me for christmas... Wonderful!! :)
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Jingle Ma Bells!!!!

Howdy Everyone,
Have we all done our Christmas shopping yet? Are we jingling all the way? Will it be a white Christmas?! Do any of us care?!!? I have done all of my shopping and so as we speak am sitting here looking extremely pleased with myself.. Altho saying this, on Christmas day when people come to open their goodies.. I think Im going to be looking an awful lot less pleased with myself.. cant say that Ive managed to do all that well with presents that I have been buying Richard but with me getting most things he wanted for his birthday its been a bit of a headache trying to think of even more things for Christmas. I know he understands anyway!! Cant think what it is hes going to buy me.. I know we are both spending quite a few pennies and are doing each other stockings which I loveeee!!! (sweety stockings not wearing stockings!)

Im putting up all of my Christmas decorations tomorrow night along with a Christmas tree that Im throwing up!! My mum and her bf (woh yesh, Karen is not gonna be lonely this Christmas!!) are coming to get a Christmas tree tomorrow… Hate lugging the thing about!! Also writing my Christmas cards.. Need a few peoples addresses tho.. Jasey, get in touch!!

I have put on around 10 pound on in the last month weight wise.. I cant be bothered at the moment though.. My body is a temple of love!!

Met Fordies GF on Sunday so Im now officially not the newbie in the gang!!! WOOT WOOT!!

Going for a meal tonight then back to mine for a lovely dessert and Champagne.. How nice does that sound.. cept I don’t really like Champagne.. But shhhhh!!!!!

Lots of love
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The best bf in the world... ever?!?! :)

Thought I would treat ma bitchie as he has been an absolutely wonderful bf since he came back from australia... He always said he wasnt a puff that wanted flowers so I did what any respectable gay would do.. Got him everythin but!! Had text Donna and his sister cos I thought he may go mad but he didnt.. He really liked em... He deserved em anyway..

Speak soon
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F-F-F-F-F-F-F-RIDAYYYYY!!

Hey Y'all
Went out last night to Fays house (very nice it is too) and had some tea and was sposed to get pissed but for some reason I was sober as a judge (i did try my hardest tho!) Bitchie had a poorly bad tummy so he was unable to drink much at all. Seems to be better now though so tonight we are going to go for an Indian very nearby where I live. Its meant to be a right nice place to go. Richard has a really fussy mate called Danni and even she loved it!!!

I have been in ever such a strange mood today (think the only person that wil know what I mean is Richard,,,) Think I need to get home and get to bed.. Am working tomorrow though!! Not too keen on that Idea let me tell you!! I have to start at 6am and finish around 12pm! :(

Things are still going very well.. Me and me bitchie still very muchly in lurve.... Looking forward to the weekend!! :) xx

Some answers...

Ello Everyone!

I hope thou art all Alrate?! I know I kept the last entry very vague but Im here to explain just a little more about what happened and why I had so many issues flying around in my head:-

Me and Richard possibly came the closest we have come to splitting up. We have finished two times before and both of the times it was his decision to do so but this time it was kind of more me that initiated wanting to maybe split up. I should point out that we are not split up, we are very much together but its just been a bit of a mess over the last week!

While me bitchie was away in Australia I was texting at first and missing him like mad. I didnt realise that he had no signal in a part of Tasmania that he went and when I was sending him really sloppy texts (of which there were quite a lot) he either didnt get them or they got lost in transit or whatever.. I didnt know this at my end so I just got thinking and thought that if it were me away and him over here, I would do things so differently with regards to contacting my other half...It just amounted to how different we were in personality and I started realising how neglected in some areas of our relationship I was feeling. To cut a long story short as I dnt wanna go into details, alot has happened and we are now in the process of mending our wounded souls. While Richard was away he realised that "absense makes the heart grow fonder" Where unfortunately it seemed to have the opposite effect on me. Both of us have a lot to forgive and forget as I ave certainly not been an angel and dont in any way want to make out that I have (AT ALL), but hopefully I can change now too and be more honest about my feelings etc etc and we can take a step forward together...

Over the last few days me bitchie has been a new bitchie and as well as been his normal adorable self has also actually been trying a lot harder with me. Its great.. Spose time will tell :) For now, we are spending the next fair few days together to try and cement us back together and then hopefully we can move on from there. Got to say that even after last night Im feeling so much better about everything. Bitchie, if your out there, I do love you.. More than you could ever know...And I still think u could be the one.. ;o)

Anyway, lets flush the mush.. What have all my avid fans been up to!? Whats Jasey poops up to?! Is my dykey tron still unsingle!? Is George best definitely dead (held on for a bloody while didnt he!?) think im going to bitchies mum and dads on Saturday for tea!! Chilli!! It gonna burn thee bitches off my tongue but I love chilli! :)

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